Wednesday, May 8, 2013

By now we’ve been trained to record only those behaviors that reflect well on ourselves, lest our employers interpret our cocktail-crushing prowess the wrong way. But Facebook’s privacy settings are clumsy and easy to circumvent. Elsewhere, blog posts, life-tracking data, consumer preferences, and check-in beacons can just as easily be ripped from their context and misdirected to an unintended audience – and meanwhile, the social networks, publishing platforms and shopping hubs just keep multiplying. For those young people interested in running for office, this poses considerable danger.

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Contrary to the language and ethos of popular social networking sites, our identities are not fixed and singular. Our “authentic selves” or “essential attributes” cannot be articulated on a single profile like a Pokémon card. Thinkers have long disputed the idea of a static identity, since such a notion would ignore how we associate in different contexts, the way our speech changes depending on our speaking partner, how varied environments shape our growth, and all the ways in which we experiment and imagine, pretend and explore.

Individuals whose life stories buck standard social scripts—immigrants, LGBT youth and ethnic minorities—are more aware of this than most. Members of these groups often navigate several social realms, swapping different speech patterns and modes of behavior depending on the context. As the much-missed Dave Chappelle once said, all black Americans are bilingual, equipped with one language for the street and another for the job interview. This ability to develop and express one’s dynamism, and to control one’s appearance based on a particular audience, is stifled by pervasive exposure.

Hamza Shaban, Live in Infamy

Being a leftist in a conservative world of business caused me difficulties for decades, and as a result I was acutely aware of the need for multiple ‘me’s.

Now that I have come out (as a much-more-than-liberal leftist) I am not confronted with the same sense of self-concealment, but I remain aware of the multiphrenia latent in human existence, and the ways that social networking sites try to make us be one indivisible self, despite all evidence to the contrary.

The crisis of publicy is not just that we might be outed, but that a repressive social order can and will judge us, and exclude us from publics we want to participate in. 

Louis Brandeis and Samuel Warren argued for the right to privacy in 1890, and we are still struggling with the form of that, one hundred years later. Today, we need a stronger right, the right to publicy: we need to be allowed to share information online and not suffer retribution because of our activities, wants, connections, or thoughts, so long as we cause no harm. 

But we live in a repressive world, a world of retributive sanctions, where a night of drunken rowdiness captured on a smartphone and published to the web can end a job, or wearing the wrong halloween costume can lead to a political candidate losing a race.

What we need is a more relaxed, less judgmental society, rather than better laws. We have a long wait, I’m afraid.

(PS The New Inquiry is a great publication, a must read for me.)

I don’t know that the wait will be as long as you think… I suppose we shall see. :)

Friday, April 19, 2013
Good morning, Happy Friday!
I’m on a coach on my way to YYC this morning and will be in San Francisco for the weekend!  Unfortunately it’s not a vacation, however I will be spending the weekend with some fantabulous people!
I’ve never been to San Francisco before, but I will be going again in July, so hopefully I will be able to spend a couple/few extra days to explore the next time.

Good morning, Happy Friday!

I’m on a coach on my way to YYC this morning and will be in San Francisco for the weekend!  Unfortunately it’s not a vacation, however I will be spending the weekend with some fantabulous people!

I’ve never been to San Francisco before, but I will be going again in July, so hopefully I will be able to spend a couple/few extra days to explore the next time.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013
Successfully passed the 1st degree of freemasonry & initiated into the 2nd yesterday evening.

Successfully passed the 1st degree of freemasonry & initiated into the 2nd yesterday evening.

Saturday, April 13, 2013
A radical destruction of the ‘bourgeois’ who exists in every man is possible in these disrupted times, more than in any other. In these times, man can find himself again, can really stand in front of himself, and get used to watching everything according to the look of the other shore, so as to restore to importance, to essential significance, what should be so in any normal existence: the relationship between the life and the ‘more than life’, between the human and the eternal, between the short lived and the incorruptible. Julius Evola, from “Metaphysics of War” (via heartbloodspirit)
Sunday, April 7, 2013
Don’t lose yourself just because you found somebody. Anonymous.  (via justanactress)

(Source: keshialee)

Saturday, April 6, 2013
We become neighbors when we are willing to cross the road for one another. (…) There is a lot of road crossing to do. We are all very busy in our own circles. We have our own people to go to and our own affairs to take care of. But if we could cross the road once in a while and pay attention to what is happening on the other side, we might indeed become neighbors. Henri J.M. NouwenBread for the Journey: A Daybook of Wisdom and Faith
Monday, April 1, 2013

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Wednesday, March 27, 2013
Live your daily life in a way that you never lose yourself. When you are carried away with your worries, fears, cravings, anger, and desire, you run away from yourself and you lose yourself. The practice is always to go back to oneself. Thich Nhat Hanh (via yogachocolatelove)
Sunday, March 24, 2013
To live alone one must be an animal or a god — says Aristotle. There is yet a third case: one must be both — a philosopher. Friedrich Nietzsche (via adecentfellow)
Thursday, March 14, 2013
What matters most is not how we may feel about ourselves, but what we believe about our value & significance. Victoria Osteen (via mitziehph)
Thursday, March 7, 2013